Losing a dad

Well, I knew the day was coming soon, but not this way. We truly thought my dad would be the one we’d be mourning first. As he’s undergone so many heart problems and is so unhealthy that we never saw this coming, and I think that’s what makes this even harder. For those who haven’t heard, Dean’s dad, and the man who’s been more like a dad to me than anyone else in my life ever, passed away unexpectedly yesterday. We are grateful to know he’s now celebrating his new life in Heaven. We are trying to focus on the legacy he left behind. He was one amazing man and know he would want us to continue loving others the way he taught us to but also want to express that now more than ever if you knew Diaz you know more than anything he wanted you to be living an honest walk with the Lord. Diaz spent his life loving and caring for people that others wouldn’t necessarily take time to. He devoted time and energy making sure people got first, second and third chances to try again after making mistakes, either with drugs and alcohol or just with making dumb mistakes with the law. He and Donna spent years of their lives devoted to sharing their home with children that were not their own, through fostering children, many of whom had multiple mental disabilities that required extra love and care on their part. It was from Donna and Diaz’s example that I learned it was important to have an “open door” policy, always wanting to have my home ready and available, with a spare bed, clean house and ample food in the fridge in case anyone ever needed it. I learned a lot from their examples on how to love others and how to forgive others. More than anything, I found a father in Diaz I had never had before. One who loved me unconditionally and was always there for me. The thing was, Diaz was that way for a lot of people. I am grateful to know my husband is raising my sons to with that same spirit and can see that same love in him today. Diaz’s legacy will forever live on. One heart and life changed will change many more. Take time this week to think about where you are in this journey as this life is fleeting and honor him by doing what would make him most proud of you! (and God as well!) Donations in lieu of flowers can be made to the Healing Center (as me if you need more info) Viewing 5-7:30pm at the Vineyard Chapel Wednesday, January 26th. The funeral service will start at 7:30pm at the chapel as well.