Well, a little update, on

Well, a little update, on November 14, 2000 I went to the hospital and got what they call an hsg test done. They poke and prod you and put you in terrible pain in an attempt to look inside at my ovaries, uterus and tubes. The whole procedure lasted only about 20 minutes, but afterward I felt raped almost. They warned me to expect slight to heavy bleeding for a day or two following the test. So I was bummed and wasn’t in the greatest of moods. Except for the fact that the dr doing the procedure said so far everything looked fine but that he would send a report to my gyn. So there was slight relief, but I still had to wait a week for my gyn to tell me I was perfectly able to have kids. But I had taken the day off of work because a very good friend of mine warned me how invasive the test was. So having had dragged along Dean, we went to enjoy a nice lunch out and then I went home and relaxed. We spent the day bonding and the evening enjoying ourselves(if you know what I mean) because we now knew that there was nothing stopping us from having kids. And we had been told that there is a higher risk of pregnancy the month or two after having such a test because it clears out any slight blockages that may have been preventing pregnancy. So now that we know there was nothing stopping us we resolved not to keep trying but let the baby thing happen on it’s on. I went on to look for a new job and stopped worrying about making a baby. So that night was one of the most carefree nights we had. (at least for me!)