I am so frustrated out how our weekend has gone.   I knew it was going to be a hard adjustment, the kids always act worse around Dean, especially Caleb.  I had them getting to be on time and things went so well, before Dean got home.   I am pretty sick and was looking forward to some rest.    Dean and Caleb went to Kings Island today w/ Dean’s brother and his dad since it’s his brothers birthday.  I had said I’d rather him not go, since we really hadnt had time together since he’s been gone for 9 days…BUT he went anyway.  My MIL was nice enough to take Bo so I  had just had Zeke w/ me but he had to nap early since he was miserable so it didnt work out how I had wanted, I was hoping, we’d drop off Bo and then Zeke would come home and nap, but instead Zeke had already napped and was wide awake while I had to decorate the cake and cupcakes for Dean’s brother.  ( i volunteered, thinking dean would be home to keep an eye on the kids) so the cake looked crappy, I’ve decided I wont make any more cakes w/out taking some classes for, it’s just not worth how crappy they turn out looking.

The party was supposed to be at 7:30 at Dean’s parents house, it took my 30 minutes to get there.   The guys were supposed to leave Kings Island at 7 but didnt end up leaving til 8 so werent home til 8:30ish which is already past the boys bedtime, esp. for Caleb when he has school tomorrow.   and it turns out Dean didnt even get caleb dinner, eventhough I had given him money too…..they had left at 3 and the boy didnt eat dinner til 9, an hour past his bedtime.   I left his parents by myself leaving all three kids w/ Dean just as his brother was just arriving to his own party, well over an hour after it was supposed to start.

that was just the part of my frustration I will blog about, I’d love to blog about what really angered me but I dont want to make anyone else mad.  but oh well… at least I can vent to myself….