bad planning

When Dean went for his consult for the vasectomy he just set up the first date the dr could do the surgery, that was today.  we never really considered that based on my orig. due date I wouldnt be able to lift Bo still.   Luckily it’s now been about a month since the c-section so I can do a bit more, but realistically I have at least another 2 weeks til I get the drs ok to resume completely normal activity. I kept asking Dean to call to see what restrictions he’d have after his surgery but he didnt and I wasnt about to call for him.  So…he’s home now and his drs orders are no lifting of more than 10 lbs for 5-7 days. So I go from doing as little as possible regarding caring for Bo to being back on full time kid duty.  Probably not such a good idea, esp. since I already feel crappy.   It’s going to be a long weekend and week……I just hope I dont hurt myself in the process.  I guess we should have waited to have Dean’s surgery but we didnt want to take any risks so getting it done sooner than later made the most sense.  Oh well….cant do anything about it now.   this ought to fun!