Dean’s at work today.  I wish he was home!  He stayed home long enough to do the school carpool thing and get the lil’ ones breakfast set up in the basement while I got a quick shower.    We’ve been vegging in front of the tv so far, a friend is coming over soon to hang out with us.   This afternoon I’m on my own again w/ the kiddos.  Should be interesting.   I’m mostly ok if I’m hobbling around, but my right foot is hurting pretty bad from having all the pressure put on it.   I am looking forward to going to the dr tomorrow to get the dressing changed and find out when I get to switch back to the other boot and either walk around normally w/ it or use crutches.    Too bad that appointments not til tomorrow at 3.   My friend told me I’m the most impatient person she knows, it’s probably true!  I just hate being stuck sitting around.   It’s not my nature to be lazy and I suck at it!!   :-)  I guess that’s not all bad, but when you have to be it stinks!

well not much to write about, things are pretty boring around here today.  the most exciting thing to happen lately was the deer that were hanging around our cul de sac this morning.  Dean said at one point there were 7 of them!  I think the only time I’ve heard Bo be quiet was this morning when he whispered to me to be quiet so I didn’t scare the deer.  (or dAre as he calls them)

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I need to blow this joint?!?!   anyone got a wheelchair and some free time?   Come break me out of this mad house!!

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Guess who Dean saw today?  In the yard playing like most dogs get the luxury of???? you got it, the neighbors dog, the one that attacked two of our kids.  They quarantined her in their home for the 10 days then it’s back to normal I suppose, she totally disregarded the agreement we had.  Turns out she read up on the law (i.e. my ex- who I still have sex with yet lives two streets over in his house- is a cop and I can screw you over) and found out we had no legal right to charge her with anything as the incident happened within her home.  Wondering if I go over and beat the crap out of her in her own house if I can get charged w/ it?  or if I should do it my own house so it’s legally not an issue?

I am more pissed that we “played nice” w/ her for so long and she lied to us over and over again claiming she didnt want the dog anyway and wanted it gone.   All of the neighbors were glad that the dog was going to be gone, for the safety of everyone.

Now the dumb dog is still there and for all we know can still escape the yard whenever it decides.  Needless to say next time I see it’s ugly self out without a leash I am calling the SPCA.  No more Miss Nice Guy, don’t mess w/ surgery chic, I may be hopping around on one foot but drugs will only make my angry worse…..too bad for her girls they will never play here again…..or our kids at their home.  Game on chicadee….you dont hurt my kids and just go on w/ life…. (ok I admit I may be being mean and unChristian like but when do you put the safety of your kids first?!?!?)

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I’ve had a few surgeries in my lifetime, more than some folks probably.  So I decided that this time I would take charge of my care a little more than normal.  When I got to my pre-op room and they were ready to put my IV in I made sure to warn them that last month for the nose surgery it took them 4 tries and that they said my veins were small and kept collapsing.  I politely asked for them to use the smallest sized needle.   Well the first attempt failed, royally, the point I had a nice sized swollen spot filled w/ iv fluid in my arm.   She got a different nurse who on her first try(the second attempt) got it right in w/ just a little pain and all was well.   I thanked her profusely.

Later when the anesthesiologist showed up I told them that I was most concerned about the throat pain that I always get after surgery and that last time I awoke w/ horrible pain that lasted for a few days and that if there was anything they could do to help me not have that problem I’d appreciate it.  She made note and said she couldn’t promise me anything but would try.    So when I finally woke up in recovery I felt great, as if just waking from a few hours of sleep and was in NO pain.  I felt great and was joking w/ the nurses shortly after waking up.   I felt so good in fact I was discharged and home sometime after 3 pm, my surgery started at 1!!

I am getting tired now but overall feel a lot less groggy than I ever have after surgeries and am in no pain currently other than a slight sore throat which just started, so I’m guessing they maybe coated my throat w/ something or gave me something for the pain in advance, but it’s not nearly like it was after the last surgery.

The other plus so far was being told I am not completely restricted as far as weight bearing.  I can put weight on the heel of my left foot(the one operated on)   The biggest con so far is being told I might not be able to shower for a while, I will have to get creative about that!  I did already get some facial cleansing wipes so I don’t feel grimey but I am one of those people who don’t drink coffee in the morning but need a shower to refresh me, it’s like my morning coffee in that respect.

Dean asked the nurse before I went to surgery that he’d like to see (or keep) the bone fragment after it was taken out.  She thought it was a strange request but that she’d tell the doctor.   We didn’t see the doctor before the surgery, but knowing him I figured he’d see the humor and interest in it and sure enough Dean has pics of the bone fragment (he said the doctor called it a mouse?!)  He said the doctor told him it was the biggest he’s ever seen.  What I’m referring to is the peice of tbonenexttodime1.jpghe bone spur that broke off and was just sitting in my foot causing pain, they also took care of the other spur that grew over where the old one was.    I told Dean at first I didnt want to know how big it was because I was afraid it would be so tiny that people would wonder why I said it hurt so bad, but I guess if it was big enough to suprise the doctor and impress Dean than I guess it’s ok.

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TuesdDSCF0787ay night I took the boys to get haircuts.   Last time Bo begged for a short haircut,DSCF0941 like Calebs.  I couldn’t do it, I love his long beautiful hair.   He has great hair.    But I figured if he really wanted it maybe he should since we were paying for the haircuts anyway.   So I held back my fear and let him do it.  As they cut it they cut the length off the back first and when she was done he let out a DSCF0972big sigh.  As she cut around his forhead and ears he said “now I can see” and “now it won’t get in my ears” I felt like I had been neglecting or abusing him by not letting him get cut, but it was so nice before…..now he’s just different looking to me andDSCF0922 I want his long hair back…..but he’s happy.

Yesterday we went w/ the preschool that they use to go to on a field trip to Shaw Farms since the boys loved it last year.   It includes a long hayrideDSCF0962 and a free pumpkin.  It was a beautiful day and we had a lot of fun.   Lots of pic up on Flickr.

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w/in the last year, we were given the plot of land next to ours which is empty.  The realty company that owned the land when our subdivision was built was pulling out of our area and didn’t want it or need it so they were giving it away.   One day we got the title/deed in the mail changed over in our name, free of charge.  Today while preparing dinner a man walked up through the woods behind/beside our house and said he wanted to buy part of our land.   The plot of land is part of the land that was given to us, we may get just what we need financially to fix the bathroom and hopefully have enough left to pay the medical bills that are left for the year since we’ve used up our flexible spending account.    God works in mysterious ways!!

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Finally some recent pics!

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Sunday we went to Kings Island but I don’t have pics from it, Dean should…

     Monday we went to the Zoo

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DSCF0861Today(Tuesday)  the lil’ boys and I went to Museum Center to see the New Clifford exhibit

And last but not least our newly redecorated bathroom(it used to be wallpapered, before Bo started taking it down!)

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as always lots  more on my Flickr acct

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